I want my wedding to be, not necessarily small, but intimate. Something akin to a destination wedding, where the guest list will consist of only the most important people in our lives.
Extravagant, elaborate weddings seem to take away the meaning of marriage. All you really need to be married is a bride, a groom, and an honest "I do".
But still, I do want it to be a beautiful wedding day to remember. Basically the only things of aesthetic importance are the things that will show in the photographs.
I'm reading through The Knot and real wedding budgets. It's a shame that even the smallest wedding still sits over $20,000. I'm determined to have a beautiful day for half that, or even less.
We will say our vows on the beach, with a party of immediate family only. No aisle, no seats. Perhaps a violinist to set the mood. The ceremony will be short and sweet. It will be on a quiet Tuesday morning.
Reception will be lunch at a local, upscale restaurant, with an outdoor view of the ocean.
It may sound like there is nothing to plan. That something so simple can be planned within a month.. and it very well can. But the key is getting the same beautiful photographs from elaborate weddings by carefully planning out even the smallest detail.